Saturday, June 30, 2007
First Calendar Event
I also bought a baguette in a long paper bag that says "Esprit de France" (Spirit of France) on the side. But I can tell just by looking at it that it's not "real" French bread. For one thing, the crust should be hard on the outside, and its not! I think that this is the closest thing I'll find, though, and I'm not going to be a bread snob.
More later after the event.
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Home Again, and All's Well
I had no trouble with my flights on Monday, except that my final flight to Baltimore was late coming in. I was really tired when I arrived, but my whole family was there, as well as my pastor and his wife. We all went to a restaurant to eat and I gave out gifts to my nieces. I was too tired to eat much, but I still enjoyed being with my family.
On Tuesday morning, I left with my mom, grandmother, sister, sister-in-law, and two nieces (all the women in the family) for the beach. Mom had planned a three-day trip in Ocean City, MD, and we had a fantastic time!
Tomorrow, I've got a lot of work to do--so that I can remember that I'm not on permanent vacation here, haha.
Friday, June 22, 2007
Mama said there'd be days like this
This morning my day began at 6:00 AM, when I got up and get ready once again for a flight I wouldn't be on. After leaving at 7:45 am, we drove two hours in traffic (at least it was less than yesterday), and I managed to get in line at 9:45 am, like they told me to yesterday. The idea: be the first one on the waiting list/standby for the 1:30 pm flight.
It was quite a rigamarole getting checked in with my excess baggage (which I had to pay for), but finally I had a blank boarding pass and could go upstairs to the gate. I sat up there until 12:45 pm when the flight began to board, hoping and praying that there would be an open seat. However, the flight was actually overbooked as it was, and some people even were asked to give up their seat on today's flight for tomorrow. I stood there until the very last person got on the plane and it was sure that I would not make it.
When I went back downstairs, I met David, who had been working in the downstairs departure area on his laptop all day, just waiting to find out what would happen. We went and stood in line at the US Airways desk again to figure out what to do next.
Major problems: the only flight they could actually confirm me on is on Monday! And I had to pay 830 dollars more! And I had to go reclaim my luggage, which had been sitting outside in the rain storm for hours, so everything was soaking wet. I was crying again, and poor David had to fight yet another two hours of traffic before we got home at 5:00 pm.
So, since I got home, I have unpacked all my bags, run most of the clothes through the dryer, and I am slowly reorganizing everything.
Some things to praise the Lord for: thanks the ladies in my church, I had a bunch of large plastic Ziploc bags and when I was packing, I thought: I might as well use these to protect things in case my shampoo spills, etc. So nearly all of my important photos etc. were in plastic bags and therefore protected. Only a couple of things have been ruined in the wet luggage, and they weren't irreplaceable! I also praise the Lord that Phyllis and David leave here and are so gracious to allow me to stay with them. I can't imagine going through this headache/heartache if I was having to stay in a hotel in Paris. And, everyone who works for US Airways could not have been kinder or more sypathetic over the last few days. God is gracious.
Thursday, June 21, 2007
It was bound to happen sometime
I missed my flight today. We left Versailles (south of Paris) at 10:00 am to cross the city to get to the Charles De Gaulle airport (north of Paris); we sat in stop and go traffic for two and half hours, before reaching the airport, where I was told that although my flight had not yet taken off, it was too late to board. I admit, I cried at the desk when the lady told me that.
My options were bleak, too: buy a ticket with another airline (at sky-high, last-minute prices--taking a loss on the ticket I hold now) or try standby tomorrow (and possibly the next day and the next day). So, I'm going to show up at the airport early tomorrow morning to be the first one in line for any open standby seats (but she told me that the flight was already overbooked, so I'm praying for a miracle!)
In the meantime, I'm spending the night with some missionaries here in Paris, who have been very gracious to me (David and Phyllis Porter, N. Texas district).
I keep telling myself, "It could be worse." But the sad fact remains, I really wanted to be with my family and friends tonight.
After three years in France, another night won't hurt.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Monday, June 18, 2007
Freak Out
- I'm not going to get everything done!
- I'm not going to get all my stuff packed into the bags designated/weight limit allowed!
- I'm going to forget something totally important, like having my mail forwarded!
- I'm going to get stuck in traffic and miss my plane! (Thursday is a holiday in France)
In all honesty, my apt. is nearly empty. There are still the bags, the last minute cleaning supplies, and a few boxes of stuff that didn't go into more organized boxes earlier. I'm cleaned kitchen to a spit-shine level of perfection, and tomorrow I'll clean the rest behind me and leave permanently.
Yesterday was my "goodbye" day for most everyone from church. Some of the youth group kids took me out to lunch, and then I was also invited to a home for dinner. In a few minutes, I'm headed to dinner at the youth pastor's house, where I will say goodbye to the last few friends from the youth group. Hard stuff.
Funny thing: Yesterday, I was driving home from church and I turned a blind corner; there in the middle of the deserted street was a teenager, who had clearly just hopped off his scooter and was picking his "wedgie." He appeared shocked and embarrassed that I surprised him, coming around that corner. He hopped back on his scooter (riding sidesaddle), and I saw him grimace as he roared away. Apparently, he was having some real trouble. I laughed all the way home.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Teaching in Belgium
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Bruges
It is a quaint, charming town and I rambled all through the cobblestone streets today, snapping pictures right and left, although today's weather wasn't the best backdrop.
Monday, June 11, 2007
Belgium
Then second, while I was meandering through town finding a restaurant, some guy passing offered to share my evening, if I wanted someone to walk with. I declined but once I got past him, I had to laugh at my "welcome" here in Belgium.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Finally! the day of the Musical
I still have a few boxes, cleaning supplies, my luggage, etc in my apartment, so I went ahead and slept here last night, but I only had a few cushions to sleep on. I thought I would be too uncomfortable to sleep well on the floor like that, but the exhaustion took care of that!
Today will be grueling as well, since we will have no break after the morning service. We'll be eating a quick sandwich from 12:00 to 12:25 (according to our director's strict schedule) and then we'll be tuning up the instruments, regulating the microphones, warming up our voices, etc. The singing doesn't bother me, its the standing on my feet for hours on end.
I've enjoyed this experience so much! I don't know how I would have become such good friends with the other singers and musiciens, if it weren't for this musical, that forced me to spend hundreds of hours with the same people. We've really bonded over our shared misery (aching legs and feet) and had a lot of great laughs. I'm so thankful that I've been able to participate in this; I wish that you could see it--it's turned out great (even if I had my doubts along the way!)
More later, after the show.
Thursday, June 07, 2007
Finding Meaning in Life
Wednesday, June 06, 2007
Two weeks from tomorrow
Okay, yesterday someone told me that I should keep blogging even though I felt like I didn't have much interesting to say, since my life currently revolves around packing and moving. "Just give us something" was the comment. Therefore, in the spirit of Marie Antoinette (since I live in France), if I can't give you bread, I'll give you cake (which means that this is a "fluff" piece!)
The work continues. This morning I discovered that the internet no longer works in my apartment, which means that they cancelled the contract, I suppose. And the cell phone company finally caved, after the AG missions dept. sent a letter explaining my "transfer" back to the States. Great! One more thing to cross off the "to do" list.
I've rented a moving truck for Sat. morning and lined up friends from work and church to help with the official move. However, I'm moving all the boxes I can in daily trips to the storage place. This way, my apartment gets steadily emptied (which aids my mental status) and the exercise is good for me. As I make trips up and down the elevator of my building, it serves as a visual advertisement to the folks in my building, who approach to ask if I've got stuff I'm willing to sell. When I'm sweating and lugging these boxes around, I'll agree to sell just about anything to avoid hauling it. I find it funny how people will take advantage of this vulnerability, but I can't complain. I really do want to get rid of some things that aren't worth storing.
I've got a pile going in one corner of the living room with all the stuff I'm bringing home. The airlines changed the luggage allowances from 70 lbs down to 50 lbs, which really cramps my style, but I'll get everything home somehow!
I've still got ministry stuff going on as well. Next week I'm going to Belgium to present a seminar on Islam to the Belgian church leadership. I'll be heading up to Continental Theological Seminary in Brussels, who is hosting the conference on "Reaching Europe's immigrant population," which gives me the chance to see another city and country I've never seen. I'm taking Tuesday as a personal day to sightsee, since after the move, I'll need some down time.
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Scary Morning
Everyone in the building knows I'm moving and the other day I got a bit worried that I might be sort of "advertising" to thieves, since I was trying to sell some furniture. I've given half a neighborhood a look at my stuff, if they wanted to "case the joint." I'd just left for an hour to do laundry at the laundromat, and here I was returning and someone was in the apartment.
I couldn't remember leaving a window or my balcony door open, but that noise was definitely coming from the back bedroom. I put down the laundry (throwing wet clothes on someone wouldn't really stop them in their cat-burgling tracks). I advanced cautiously and silently into the hallway. I felt like the police, whipping around corners, looking into the bedroom.
There was no one there. Just then I heard the noise again--coming from the computer. It was a "buddy" noise from my friend Cindy who was messaging me. For pete's sake! She thought it was hilarious, of course.
Friday, June 01, 2007
Rapunzel
What mother in her right mind would trade her child for cabbage? I don't care how bad the cravings are; this seems unbelievable. (I did a little research today and apparently, in olden times, it was believed to be dangerous to deny a pregnant woman any craving--having to do with vitamins, etc.) So admittedly, the guy must have thought his wife would die without the stolen cabbages, but I still think its ridiculous to trade your own offspring for a vegetable of any kind.
Why I am thinking about this, you ask? Well, here in France, the system of "bills" is different than it is in the States. For the internet, the cell phone, car insurance, the telephone, etc. we are billed directly out of our checking accounts. Until we die.
That's right. Getting out of a contract with one of them, even for legitimate reasons, such as returning to the States for a year, is nigh unto impossible. I sent out letters, very official-sounding ones, several weeks ago, giving a two month notice that I would be terminating my contracts. I claimed that since I was an American, I was returning to the US and therefore, would not need my cell phone service/internet/health club membership anymore.
Most of them have been decent about it. The cell phone company doesn't believe me. They sent a letter saying that I needed an official letter from the town hall/Mayor's office of Merignac (where I live) saying that I'm leaving France permanently. This posed a problem--I'm not leaving France permanently, so I didn't want to lie to the Mayor's office.
I went the other day, planning to present the case on its own merits and see what would happen. But they shot me down immediately, saying they only do letters like that for the French. I would need to contact the Embassy in Paris. That option seemed a little over-the-top to me.
So this morning I called the cell phone carrier to ask what ELSE could I provide as proof? They asked for one of two things: a letter from my parents (in English is fine!) stating that they will lodge me for a period of more than six months--and this letter needs to be signed/stamped from either our local Mayor's office or the police station of our town. (Riiiiiiiiight) Or, I can have a letter from my employer stating that my term of service overseas is finished and I'm being transferred back to the States. That has to be authorized as well, by the Mayor, the Chief of Police, etc. as well.
I think a notary will suffice. They graciously provided me with a fax number to receive these letters, so that they could "work on the cancellation of my contract as fast as possible" once they receive the proof that I am actually leaving the country.
Yeesh. Is there a form or something where I can just sign over my unborn children?